Once upon a time I was celebrating a friend’s birthday at a bar along with an older Jamaican woman I had recently ended things with, a Colombian woman who had picked me up at a house party and I was currently dating, and a Dominican-American woman I was meeting for the first time and ended up dating 3 months later, when I met an author, Sujeiry, who wrote for Latina.com and maintained a website concerning love, sex, dating, and relationships. She was intrigued that I was juggling three women in that social setting without any dramatic fireworks and invited me to blog about my experiences from the male perspective on her website. Thus, my blog RuMANating Intercourse was born. Why do I write about love, sex, dating, and relationships? Love. There is no feeling like looking into the eyes of someone you love and would do anything for and feeling loved by them in return. Perhaps this may explain why some people obsess about their pets to an excess, but in the least it explains why everyone considers their children to be the source of their greatest joys. Some of us are fortunate to experience love with a romantic partner and spend our days in utter bliss, awakening our carnality and indulging in plenty of … Sex. This is not the I smashed, let me get mine, I’m in a power struggle with the opposite gender because I have unresolved parental issues. I mean tantric, spiritual, sensual, multiple orgasms, embracing our humanity by exploring our sexuality, safe comfortable environment where we can please each other and the safe word is “IDontWantYouToStopButINeedABreak”. The sex is so good, and we’re both famished from having sex all day long and need to eat something else besides each other. So we share a meal, go to the movies hoping for an empty theater, steal away on a vacation together and attempt to join the mile high club and before long all your friends will think you’re … Dating. Yes, that awkward, overly complicated, too many damn rules, don't know what's going on process that is complete and utter rubbish. The idea is to get to know the other person but more often than not it’s a drawn out struggle and negotiation because a relationship cannot be agreed upon and neither side has decided to walk away just yet. In reality if it’s not moving forward, it's stagnant and you're wasting your time on something isn't meant to be. Because when it is meant to be, it’s downright simple and easy to get into a … Relationship. These are what matter most in life. You can have all the finest things, travel to all the exotic places, and indulge in the best the world has to offer but it's the people you maintain relationships with that always bring you the most enjoyment and satisfaction. So then why are relationships so damn hard sometimes and so much work? Let’s explore…
*Originally posted on dailyenthusiast.net on September 3, 2013.